January Monthly Favorites

January 29, 2019

Can you believe we are already one month in to 2019?  I can't-- It feels longer.  I saw a meme on IG today that said "It feels like January 74th" and all I can say is FACTS!

I am a YouTube junkie (Hello, my name is Carlye and I have a problem) and I have always loved watching monthly favorite videos.  I like seeing what people choose as their favorite things each month and have even gotten some of my own favorite things from these videos!  I am not going to make a video, but thought it could be fun to make a list here each month that showcases some of my favorite things and hope that maybe they can spark an interest for you and maybe they will become some of your favorite things too!

One of the main criteria of a good favorites video is to cover all bases-- I like covering a wide variety of categories!  So, I decided that I would pick one thing as my favorite in each category:

Home:
I have been verrrry into candles over the last few months and of course hit up the BBW candle day sale for some seasonal favorites. They usually have different sales throughout the year that you can catch and during one of those sales I saw a gorgeous candle stuffed in the back of a shelf.  The outside was beautiful, but I wasn't sure if I was going to like the scent.  Y'all-- Pistachio Ice Cream smells so damn good!  It throws a strong scent, but that is fine with me!  It is incredible.  The notes are roasted pistachio, almond extract and vanilla extract.  I can't even begin to tell you how much I love this candle, but just take my word for it.  You need this in your life!

Food:
I had never shopped at a Trader Joe's before I moved to Baltimore and I didn't know what I was missing!  Everything is so delicious, but I discovered their Mediterranean Style Orzo Pasta Salad and it is so good!  It is a cold pasta salad and when paired with some grilled chicken is lunch time perfection!  It's got spinach, sun dried tomatoes, feta and a yummy dressing.  It has become one of my favorite things to pack for lunch.
Photo Cred: Become Betty Blog
Makeup:
I got a few eyeshadow palettes for Christmas and they are all gorgeous!  I got the Jeffree Star Cosmetics "Blood Sugar" palette as a little gift to myself this year and recreated one of my favorite looks by Jaclyn Hill.  I have never worn bright colored shadows like these and was very impressed by the pigmentation and quality of the shadows.  I've never bought anything from JSC, but this has convinced me that I may need more in my life!
Hair:
I've mentioned previously on my blog that I recently dyed my hair!  I bought a color correcting shampoo when I was leaving the salon that day and liked it, but noticed that my hair wasn't getting AS blonde as I would like it to be when I was washing.  I found a new brand at Target that had a color correcting product called Kristin Ess "The One" Purple Shampoo.  I knew that purple shampoos were supposed to help reduce brassiness and I had read a lot of reviews about this new line of hair care products and wanted to try it out.  I have loved this product from the day I started using it!  Purple shampoos can be a bit drying, so make sure to only use this once or twice a week.  Did I mention that it is sulfate free?  
Kristin Ess range at Target
Television:
I know that most people have probably cut regular cable out of their lives and are mainly Hulu and Netflix users.  I haven't cut that chord just yet, but I have discovered some gems on both platforms that have become favorites.  My most recent discovery (Thank you, Chelsea) is the new Netflix original series "Sex Education."  This show is funny, thought provoking, sweet, raw and just plain amazing.  The premise of the show:

"Socially awkward high school student Otis may not have much experience in the lovemaking department, but he gets good guidance on the topic in his personal sex ed course -- living with mom Jean, who is a sex therapist. Being surrounded by manuals, videos and tediously open conversations about sex, Otis has become a reluctant expert on the subject. When his classmates learn about his home life, Otis decides to use his insider knowledge to improve his status at school, so he teams with whip-smart bad girl Maeve to set up an underground sex therapy clinic to deal with their classmates' problems. But through his analysis of teenage sexuality, Otis realizes that he may need some therapy of his own."

I watched all 8 episodes during a four-day off stretch and cannot wait until season 2 (fingers crossed it gets renewed).  Do yourself a favor and watch this show!  It may be a bit awkward if someone walks in and sees the show out of context, but it does make for a hilarious story!


Keepsake:
Every year my friends and I do a Secret Santa gift exchange and this year my roommate, Kate, had me!  She got me a limited edition magnum of Hidden Valley Ranch dressing (#1 condiment/dip) and cross-stitched a Golden Girls sampler.  When I tell you that I am obsessed with these gifts-- girl!  They were so perfect!  I have already cracked open the magnum of Ranch and the sampler is prominently displayed on a shelf in my room.  I love them-- thank you, Kate!


I know that this isn't everything that I loved from the month of January, but I think its a good mix!  Is there anything that you discovered this month that you have become obsessed with and have to share with the world?  Please share below so I can join your obsession!

KonMari Organization Series: Clothing

January 21, 2019

I, like everyone else, have now seen the new Netflix series "Tidying Up with Marie Kondo."  This isn't a new phenomena as her books have been best sellers and trending for the last few years, but it is new to me.  After watching a few episodes on a snowy Sunday afternoon I decided I need to start this process myself.  I know-- how original!  Well, I had a day off last week and decided that was going to be the day that I start.

What is the KonMari method, you ask?  Well, what Marie says makes it unique is that she organizes by category and not by location.  So, you don't set forth doing one room at a time, but go in a specific order of categories.  The five categories are:
  1. Clothing
  2. Books
  3. Paper
  4. Komono
    1. Kitchen
    2. Bathroom
    3. Garage
    4. Miscellaneous
  5. Sentimental Items
Since the people on the show seem to get a month to do the entire process I decided that I should too.  Rome wasn't conquered in a day folks-- it took time!  So, since the first step is clothing, I decided that in order to keep in line with the KonMari method I would tackle my clothes.

Before: Clothes everywhere!
Before: Shoe shelves a mess

The way that Marie says to complete the organization is to take all of your clothes out and place them somewhere all together.  Everyone on the show seems to put everything on their bed, so I did too!  She says "only when you are actually confronted with exactly how much you have, you start to realize what you need to do."  I decided to take some before pictures, excluding my dresser, and was mortified at the sight!  I couldn't even put away all of my clean laundry because there was no more room.  I just had laundry baskets and piles of clean folded clothes that hadn't been put away plus a dirty clothes hamper full of dirty clothes.  Too much!  Well, my fear became a reality when I piled everything on my bed.  I couldn't even reach the top to put more on-- I had to toss it on top!  I was doing this alone and was so embarrassed at the amount of clothing that I had accumulated over the years and the fact that I hadn't even worn most of it in years.
During: It was as tall as I am!

I went through piece-by-piece and did exactly what Marie says to do... Does it spark joy?  Yes?  Keep.  No?  Thank it and get rid of it.  After doing this for HOURS I ended up with 9 bags of clothing to give away!  NINE!  I cannot explain how much lighter I feel.  It's crazy that I had accumulated that much clothing and had moved it between homes as many times as I did!  The clothing treated me well and it was time to pass it on to someone else that could use it.  It is a pretty great feeling!  After friends and family looked through the clothing I decided to donate the rest to a women's shelter and Goodwill.

Now comes the hard part-- folding.  I hate folding clothes and putting them away.  I suppose I hated it more before because I had so many and putting them away was a pain!  Marie recommends a specific way to fold all clothing and it actually makes a lot of sense.  It saves so much room and looks incredibly neat and tidy (the point I guess).  I signed up for a newsletter from a organization blog called For the Love of Tidy and her folding guide is incredibly helpful!
For the Love of Tidy
All tshirts & tank tops folded neatly.  I have so much more room!

It was a very cleansing exercise and I feel so much lighter after getting it done.  I have decided to make this a bit of a series here on Lashes & Leggings and am going to try to organize my personal space in the apartment using Marie's KonMari method.  So, this will be followed by four more posts for the remaining categories of organization.
After: Organized and so much more space
After: All shoes have a  place and easily accessible

Are you interested in trying the KonMari method of organization?  Have you already used it for your home?  Please share in the comments below!

#30DayButtLiftChallenge Part 1

January 14, 2019

Remember how one of my resolutions was to stop with the negative self-talk?  Well I'm embracing a part of my body that I actually like, but feel like I've neglected-- my booty.  I have been blessed with a booty and I have come to appreciate the curves as I've gotten older.  I think part is genetics (Thanks, Mom) and part is from  dancing for as long as I did.
Booty sighting at the 2017 BMAs with Kate

Over the last few years I have noticed that the old girl ain't what she used to be.  I have decided to challenge myself to the #30DayButtLift created by Cassey from Blogilates.  She has mapped out a 30 day challenge that will gradually take me from 5 reps to 22 in a month's time!  I have tried to start things like this before and never finished them, so here we are again.  I'm using you guys as my accountability coaches!

I am planning on keeping up with my weekly progress and will post a challenge completion post after my 30 days are up.  I want to include some "before" and "after" photos in that post, so I am going to have to muster up the nerve to take those.  Nothing humbles you more than a "before" photo! My goal is to post them, but I am going to need some encouragement along the way-- vulnerability isn't easy for me.

Cassey's challenge is below:
Blogilates #30DayButtLiftChallenge
Is anyone else interested in building their booty up with me?  Lets do it!  Comment below any other fitness challenges you have done or if you have a different booty challenge in mind!  Today is day #1-- Happy squatting, ladies!

What's in my Gym Bag?

January 7, 2019

With the start of the new year we all want to stick to our goals.  Last year I joined a gym and was really good at going at least three times a week.  Well... I had a back injury and got out of the habit.  I am going to make it back to the gym and have my bag packed!

Before I started going to the gym I looked up a ton of blog posts and watched a bunch of different YouTube videos about what was in people's gym bags.  That may sound weird, but I wasn't an avid gym-goer and I wanted to know what other women thought were "necessary" items.  After I finished my research I went out and got everything I felt would be helpful for a successful trip to the gym.  I already had a few items, but added to them to complete my perfect gym bag.


1. Bag: The bag I have is from Fabletics and is no longer sold, but they have a ton of different options on their site.  Fabletics is an online subscription service that sells women's sportswear, footwear and accessories.  I love their outfits and have gotten a lot of great pieces and accessories from their monthly releases.  As a VIP member I am able to take advantage of monthly curated options in my online store with reduced pricing.  If you are interested in joining you can click the link:  Join the Fabletic Fun!

2. Blender Bottle: I am new to this world and am slowly learning which protein powders and which pre-workouts that I like (I really like the FitMiss Delight Vanilla Chai Protein Powder) and the blender bottle makes it so easy to take along with you!  I sometimes use iced coffee as my base and put the vanilla chai protein powder in as a morning boost!  I carry a few packets of the FitMiss Strawberry Margarita pre-workout in case I need an extra boost of energy and focus for my workout.

3. Headphones:  I like to listen to music or watch Netflix/YouTube while I'm on the treadmill/elliptical and I need a secure pair of headphones.  I'm not a huge fan of the bulkier pairs, but I know a lot of people like the larger, noise cancelling options to help them focus.  I am interested in getting a wireless pair for the New Year, so I am always open to suggestions!

4. Sneakers:  These are the Nike Women's Air Max Thea and when I was on the hunt for an olive green sneaker these caught my eye.  I became obsessed with the olive and faux leather signature Nike swoosh that I knew I had to get them. I like this pair not only for their looks, but also because they give me just enough support in my arches and still leave room to breathe.  I have a few other pairs, but these have been my recent go-to.

5. Extra pair of socks:  I usually get to the gym already in my socks and sneakers, but just in case I'm coming from somewhere else I pack extra.  I hate the standard black or white socks and usually opt for a brighter pair.  I also hate having to find matching pairs, so I found an incredible pack of socks that doesn't have a specific "mate" and I am never searching!  Great find!

6. Hair elastic: Again, I am usually going to be dressed and prepared for the gym including having my hair up in a pony, but there are always tragedies like broken hair ties! In case mine breaks or I need another one I always make sure I have some extras on hand.

7. Toiletries:  I used to hate the idea of waking up and going to the gym before work, but I have come around.  One thing that I let myself realize was that I could get ready for work at the gym when I was done!  When I'm done with my AM workout I like to take a shower and prefer to use my own products instead of the weird body wash/shampoo combo that the gym offers.  So, I fill empty travel sized bottles with my favorite shampoo & conditioner and bring a travel sized bottle of my favorite body wash (Rose Jam by LUSH USA).

8. Face/Body Wipes: For days that I am not going to work or somewhere specific after my workout I carry some wipes to quickly cleanse my face and body.  They smell like coconut and I love them!  They are nice to have for a quick refresh post-gym sesh! I got these from TJ Maxx for $3.99 and there are over 80 wipes per pack!  I would totally recommend looking through a Marshalls or TJ Maxx for great deals like this!

9.  Makeup:  On days that I do go to work I bring my makeup bag.  I have paired down my routine to include just the necessary products for a quick and simple daytime look.  I don't need too much for a regular day at work, so this bright travel bag by Tarte cosmetics was perfect!  I can fit everything and the tassels & pom-pom are adorable!

10.  Moisturizers:  For days that I am running errands post-gym I like to use a nice moisturizer after I've washed my face.  I am a huge fan of the Glamglow Glam Starter Mega Illuminating Moisturizer in Nude Glow.  It smells amazing, moisturizes and leaves this incredible glow on the skin that is perfect for a post-workout face!  When I am feeling a little less flashy I use the Glow Recipe Watermelon Glow Pink Juice moisturizer.  It is light like a serum, but packs a big moisture punch.  Plus-- I get to smell like watermelon all day!

Along with the mentioned items above I bring a towel for my hair and a wrap for my body.  I have found that these items make my daily workout and morning routine that much easier.  If I am going to work I also pack my outfit for that day and my gym has a great dressing room area that leaves me no excuse to not do a morning workout! Is there anything that you have in your gym bag that I don't?  Let me know in the comments below and I may add them to mine!

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